Don't leave me: the effect of dependency and emotions in relationship conflict

• Published in: Journal of applied social psychology Vol. 44; no. 9; pp. 579 - 587
• Main Authors: Valor-Segura, Inmaculada, Expósito, Francisca, Moya, Miguel, Kluwer, Esther
• Format: Journal Article
• Language: English
• Published: Hoboken Blackwell Publishing Ltd 01-09-2014; Wiley Subscription Services, Inc
• Subjects: Conflicts; Emotions; Social psychology; Women
• ISSN: 0021-9029; 1559-1816
• DOI: 10.1111/jasp.12250

Two studies examined how the effect of dependency and emotions on the dynamics of relationship conflict differs between men and women. In Study 1, 96 women and 67 men were presented with conflict situations that might occur in their relationship; the probability of aggression, anger, and dependency was measured. Results showed that anger mediated the relationship between dependency and the intention to use aggression, in men, but not in women. In Study 2, 95 women and 65 men wrote about a conflict situation that they had experienced with their partner; loyalty, guilt, and dependency were measured. Results showed that dependency predicted loyalty among women, and that this effect was mediated by guilt.